"REAL" Men vs. Real "WOMEN"

It has come to my attention that the same question is always being asked by females.. "Where are all the real men?"  It is my belief that they are where they always have been... right in front of you.  The problem that exist is that "women" say there are no "REAL" men out there, but I have come to realize that females have a problem with getting out of their own damn way to see them.  "REAL" men step to you all the time, but since you are not really looking for a real man you don't see them.  I hear females talking how they need a real "nigga" in they life, and complain when they get a REAL NIGGA in they life.  You get exactly what you ask for as it is said in the Bible... you speak into fruition exactly what you want.  I have to explain time and time again that I am not a NIGGAH, but a REAL MAN however since I don't run the streets, chasin' pappa, or spend my nights wit the boyz, or simply doing the thing niggas do then I am not worth noticing.  We won't mention that I have job (15 years, and running), my own place (not living with my momma or ex), 2 cars titled in my name, no children running around wondering where I am, no felonies haunting me, or completely tatted... you know the things that make for a "REAL" man then that makes me invisible to radar.

Now "women" is used in quotations because females have no idea what the hell that word means.  It isn't about your sex, but your mentality.  A woman thinks like a woman, and knows the difference.  I woman understands what giving what you get means.  I woman understands value, and this is not the value of a dolla, but the value of a "REAL" man and vice versa.  Women understand what the word TRUST really entails along with RESPECT and HONESTY, OPEN COMMUNICATION, and COMPROMISE.  There is nothing more annoying and relationship deconstructing than an insecure female that doesn't realize that she is insecure for if she TRUSTED then she would have no reason to be insecure.  The unfortunate cause of most insecurities comes from guilt transference which is the guilt of doing wrong and putting it on someone else to ease your conscience. 

This is just the beginning so stay tuned because there is definitely more to come.